I AM STRESS FREE VITALITY COACHING

• My whole life I felt as if I had no control of my life situations. I was stuck finding myself over and over in similar situations and the only thing that was different were the people. For example, I was married to a high-functioning alcoholic, not once but twice. In retrospect it makes sense, I came from a highly toxic family where I learned that love was toxic. So in both my marriages my partners were emotionally absent, financially not supportive, there was no communication, I did not have healthy boundaries, I did not know how to deal with my emotions in a healthy way. I was really good at keeping up appearances and pretending everything was fine. I was afraid of my own emotions and was a master at suppressing them. I refused to accept the toxicity of my family and in my marriages. After my first divorce I moved to another country and my daughter did not want to move with me. It was really hard to be away from her. Finally she moved with me because her father never took care of her. 
• Married or single, in my own country and in another country; I had to go thru the hardships of having to be a mother and a father for my daughter because both husband's were emotionally absent. A way that I coped with this was that I learned to push my emotions away and told myself that I did not count. I was also someone that went the extra-mile to help and please a lot of people. I did not have self-love, was not living my true life purpose and was not happy. I chose to keep up appearances and chose not once but twice my toxic husband over a healthy relationship with myself, my daughter and in life.

• Until one Morning I woke up & said  ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! 

• I was tired of living a life in fear. Fear of when my drunk husband would decide to drive drunk and put my life and others at risk, when he would not wake up because he was passed out, when we would get into the next fight because he would get jealous when I would talk to my daughter,  when he would just not show up to something important to me, or just flat out ignore me and just walk past me. I was tired of living like a ghost in my own house. We had been sleeping in separate rooms for years, did not really speak to each other. I was tired that every time  I would come home, he would always be drunk. 
• I was “married” but lived alone for 25 years. I was tired of not seeing my daughter because she lived in another country and she never wanted to visit my toxic marriage. I was tired of pretending that everything was fantastic and that I had an amazing marriage. I was tired of putting everyone else first, I was tired of always solving my family's problems even if they lived in another country, I was tired that I did not matter. 

I was tired of the life I was living... 

this was NOT living!